Guest Appearances

The Pantry Podcast

Escaping Sexual Shame (with Carl Thomas)

We do not have to be trapped. Our sexual shame so often becomes the tallest wall preventing us from deliverance from the very sin that leads to that shame! We think we are the only ones who struggle and are afraid to be honest about our struggles. Yet, we are not; there are many brothers and sisters who will walk alongside us if we will only ask.

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Pure Sex Radio

When Shame Gets Real (with Carl Thomas)

My guest today is Carl Thomas. Our conversation today revolves around this issue of shame – what it is, how it perpetuates unhealthy (and even unwanted) sexual behaviors, what it takes to live free from it, and why authentic community is so powerful for dealing with shame effectively.

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The Badchristian Podcast

Episode #620 with Carl Thomas

Our old friend Carl Thomas from XXXchurch stops by the show to talk about his new book When Shame Gets Real. Shame is a tool that is used abundantly these days, and it’s hard to avoid the issues that stem from it. Carl says his book isn’t the only answer or way to handle shame, but it’s a way to look at shame and healing.

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The Bare Marriage Podcast

Episode 137: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea About Lust

In this episode we talk to Carl Thomas, author of When Shame Gets Real and CEO of XXXchurch and Andrew Bauman, MA, LMHC about new research that reveals the truth about lust patterns in men and goes against much of traditional evangelical thinking and teaching.

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Dear Young Married Couple Podcast

Porn, SHAME, and Secrecy w/ Carl Thomas, MTS

Carl Thomas, MTS shares with us parts of his own personal struggle with pornography, as well as how to overcome it and prepare for exposure. Join Adam + Karissa to be a part of the chat.

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The Bare Marriage Podcast

Episode 134: What Guys Can Do If They’ve Messed Up

In this episode, we talk to Carl Thomas about his new book When Shame Gets Real: A new way to talk about sex, porn, and masturbation and discuss how men can talk about their past struggles and teach their kids to avoid doing the same.

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Building Men Podcast

“When Shame Gets Real” With Carl Thomas

On the episode, we talk to Carl Thomas about the stuff that men don’t talk about. We peel back the layers of our own experiences learning about sex and pornography and the shame associated with opening up to others about it.

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When Shame Gets Real

“A breath of fresh air…”

We all know what it’s like to look into the mirror only to feel overwhelmed with regret and shame. For some, it’s a daily occurrence. But for those who’ve compromised their sexual integrity, it’s an ongoing reality.

In this book you’ll find a refreshingly blunt and candid conversation about sex, porn, and masturbation, that pulls no punches and reveals a clear path to freedom from sexual shame and sexually addictive behavior.

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